Wednesday, September 2, 2015

Why Would You EVER Mention Your Spouse's Name on a Date?

Oh c'mon.

Don't you know better?

That guy (or girl) doesn't want to hear about it.  All of your past experiences?  Your life?  

He doesn't want to hear about how your husband stood by you while you studied and worked for a degree.  She doesn't want to hear about that moment when your children were born.

He could care less about the moment you met.

She doesn't like it when you mention your wife.  At all.

Why would you ever consider sharing your life with 
someone who doesn't care about...your life?


  1. I do, because Jake is a part of who I am today, and if they don't like it, too bad. And if they don't want to hear about it, you are wasting your time with someone that doesn't want to know you.

  2. Patrick was and always will be a part of who I am. When I started dating I made sure they knew that, and they were ok with it, because I wasn't wasting my time with people who couldn't be understanding. I am who I am today because of Patrick.

  3. You're absolutely right. If someone doesn't want to know about the person you and how you got that way, quit wasting your time.

  4. LOL.. I say now I am a package deal... you must love me and Bill because he is part of my soul and heart you are if you are not interested in Bill as I would be your wife if you are a widower... see ya... as David Spade say... bye bye... just bye bye

  5. I am so unbelievably lucky that my fiance doesn't mind when I talk about my late husband, Bobby. He even says that Bobby is definitely someone he could have been friends with. It makes me love him MORE that I can talk about my life before him. My teenage & adult kids even like him more because he doesn't want to erase their dad from their everyday conversation.

  6. My ex husband and I have been divorced now for two years. He remarried one year ago. Last year him and I were still talking, he was engaged at the time and I didn't know. We were meeting each other at the park, talking, emailing, and went out to dinner one time. The entire time he told me I was the love of his life and that he didn't love this woman he is now married to. Of course my response to him was that he was also the love of my life as well. I was the one that asked for the divorce, and it was the biggest mistake of my life. This man is the only man I've ever truly loved and I am unable to love another man. When his fiance found out we were talking she broke all communication..Changed his phone number, deleted his email account etc. I've had no way of contacting him and I also have changed my number so he doesn't have anyway of contacting me either. I feel desperate, I feel like a crazy person because I can't stop these racing thoughts that control my life every single day. I just need to know how he feels. The very last time we talked he told me he could never love another woman again, and now he's married. What do I do? I cry myself to sleep every night. I can't listen to music, I'm afraid to go places for fear I'll see him with her. And when I do go to various places I think of him...Everything reminds me of us. I just want him back, he's my everything!! I love him so much!!!, i never wanted to check the internet for spell casters because i believed that they are all scam, but a child hood friend of mine told me to give it a try and contact a spell caster which i did, i contacted Chief Nwaluta Mallam Zack and was doubting his powers, because he assured me not to worry about anything that all will be well, he did the spell for me and now my ex husband is back in my life and our marriage is saved with the help of Chief Nwaluta, here is his email if you are going through cases like this { }. Thank you chief i really appreciate.